Best Of Both Worlds

Who wouldn't want the best of both worlds. In a perfect world we would all have that in our partner. We've all heard the cliche phrase "Lady in the streets, but a FREAK in the bed". That's one of the few cliche things I agree with.

I don't know one for guys, but it applies to you too fellas. The same way you want a woman to go out into the world and handle her business, take care of the kids etc., then come home and fuck you like its the last time she's gonna get some dick...we want the same thing in return.

Women want that man that's sensitive to her feelings, but can put his foot down. We want that man that can go with the flow, but can take charge. We also want that man that's kind and can makes us feel secure and safe, but fuck us like he's about to go to jail for life. Lmao!!

To me that's the sexiest thing about a man...the ability to let his woman be a woman but he still knows how to be a man.

Connecting

If your really connected with someone mentally as well as physically there absence makes a big difference in your life. So when days or even week go past and you don't see them for whatever reason...when you see them, your body starts to go in over drive. We respond to them in a way that makes you think...WTF!!! Lol!! It's that not the same as just wanting to have sex, it's just the fact that your so connected with this person in more ways than one.

Ladies...when you finally get to see him after a few days or weeks your pussy IMMEDIATELY starts to pulsate, because your just anticipating him and "HIM". You feel like your about to cum as soon as the tip of his dick enters you. WOOOOOOO!!! Now that's just serious shit. I'm speaking from experience about with that. *has flashback*.

Guys...when you see her OF COURSE your dick gets hard, but for guys when you have  a mental AND physical connection with a woman your body and mind does shit that you never thought it would do. Lol!! Now I can't speak from experience with that, but I have a mental and physical connection with someone and I can definitely tell the difference between just fuckin and connecting.

When your younger and having fun your just doing you and just having sex. But he older I get I start to appreciate sex and I realize what it really is for. I just wish some people would grow up and step up to that level.

Reaching

Fellas...there's no better feeling to a female than cumming REAL hard. At least it is for me. What do I mean by real hard????? Well when she's either grabbing/biting the sheets, squeezes you between her thighs cause it feels so good, digs her nails in your back or even if she's REACHING for shit that's not even there. Lol!!

There are different levels of cumming for both male and female. They're the basic nuts when I guess either your just trying to get off real quick or when you masturbate. It's nothing spectacular. The one when you've been thinking about fucking all day and when you bust it feels like you lost a pound. Lol!

THEN...there's the one that gives you a headache and you get so hot it feels like your sitting on the damn sun. The type that both of you just collapse because you have NO energy to move. Unfortunately everyone has never experienced this because from what I hear every man can't make every woman cum and vice versa. Sorry to hear that. Lol!

Rise & Smile

Fellas who needs an alarm clock, when you can get some morning head!!! Isn't that the best way to get your morning started off right. There's no snooze button on that, so be prepared to stay "UP" in more ways than one ;-) What man would object to that?

Ladies, don't be afraid to roll over and just say "good morning" with your mouth around his dick though. Especially if you wake up first! I mean come on...that's perfect. He's already hard, why let it go to waste. Head is a universal language. Other terms that it can be used for is good night, thank you, I missed you, etc, etc. Lol!!

This can benefit both of you. Of course the morning head turns into morning sex. Now the both of you are gonna be riding into work a SMILE on  your face. If the boss pisses you off during the day, just think of that good "breakfast you had. OW!

Along For The Ride

We all get turned on when we see the how our sexual partner reacts to how we feel, what we're doing etc. To me that just makes the sex even better. Especially if you have REAL feelings for the person. For a woman to get that feeling is one of the best feelings in the world.

Since men try so hard to at like they can't get turned out by a woman or even make their legs shake. It's ok fellas, you let go and let flow.  Just let it happen. We might even like you more if you do ;-)

Anyway...I'm getting off subject a little. Lol! For me, I get turned on when I'm riding "him", I'm holding his hands down and I'm in control of the situation. He just doesn't have a choice, but to just go ALONG FOR THE RIDE. Just looking down at his face and watching enjoying me is one of the best sights I can ever see. Of course theirs an occasional nipple lick here and there. Another thing guys try to deny. YOU LIKE IT NIGGA!! :-P Lol!

When a man tells a woman he loves how she rides him is  definitely an ego booster for her. Riding a man is an art form most women will never master. But I guess me being Jamaican has it's advantages. OW!!

Nice & Slow

Let me tone it down for ya'll. I know the majority of my blogs are raw, uncut, straight and to the point. Lol!! For those who know me personally know...that's just how I am 25/8. BUT, like ANY woman I like the soft, slow, grinding sex. It doesn't always have to be the rough, choke me, pull my hair sex I normally talk about. SOMETIMES...I like it NICE & SLOW.

There's no better feeling than to have your significant others body just pressed against yours and you both just grinding slow, but every now and again you guys give the pussy one big SLAM and that shit feels OH SO DAMN GOOD!!! Then you get back to the grindin'. But fellas whether you like to admit it or not you like the slow, "loving" sex. You like to stand/kneel behind your chick, wrap your hands around her waist and just watch how she slow wine on your dick.

You watch her back go up and down and her ass going in circles...and that turms you on even more. We know it does, that's why we do it ;-) But if your not a fan of the "NICE & SLOW"...your missing out. Take it easy every once in awhile, you'll thank me later.

2ND'S, 3RD'S & MORE!!!!!

Theirs nothing better than having sex, take a 15 min break, sips some water, becasue you know your throat is dry as shit and get back at it. That's how you know it was GREAT. When a person can FUCK the soul outta you and you still want more...WOOOOOOO!!! That's when you have those sex marathon days. Let me go change my panties...I just had a flashback. Lol!

We've all experienced good sex, HOPEFULLY...but when you have great sex that's just another level of sex. The multiple cumming, the not wanting to stop even when you get that cramp in your leg. Lol! That's what the 15 min break is for anyway. Lol!

What makes the 2ND'S, 3RD'S & MORE evenmore euphoric is when you have a good sexual and metal relationship with your partner. It adds to it, because it just makes you feel good that a person that you respect and may have feelings for wants more of you in that way.

I Love That Shit

I've recently just learned that every woman's pussy is positioned differently...internally that is. Some are in the front, back and I guess theirs some that are in between. That makes sense since every man has a different shape dick. Curved, hooked straight, short, fat etc, etc. Theirs a lot of different variations. Lol! So I guess that one reason why we all have those positions that we all prefer with different people.

 We all have that one position that just puts just us over the edge whether your male or female. Some men love when I woman rides them, some like it missionary then their are those that love the not so normal. WHICH IS GREAT in my book. I'm all in with that.

Who wants to do the same old shit all the time. Theirs nothing worst than routine sex. That's when you know what the next move is gonna be. I like to be surprised. Throw me on the bed, rip my pants off, fuck me like it's the last time, choke the shit outta me and as some say go BALLS DEEP. Lmao!. I LOVE THAT SHIT!!! Nobody wants boring/routine sex. But I do understand that we're all not as open minded and adventurous as others. Ladies...theirs nothing wrong with pussy poppin it on a hand stand while he hits hit. Lol! Trust me.

I Don't Want To See You Strip For This

This is a question for the ladies. WTF IS THE BIG DEAL ABOUT MALE STRIPPERS?!?!? No pun intended. Lol! The last thing that I want to see is a man in panties. Lmao! I just don't get it. I am NOT at all turned on by them humping the floor, a chair, my knee, whatever it is that they do.

Some women are just head over heels to see a oiled up half naked man pump his dick in her face. They just loose their minds over this shit. Most people say that those women get so excited over male strippers because they're not getting good dick. Now I don't know how true that is, but I can kind of agree with it.

I'm straight as an arrow, but I would rather go see the females strip. That to me is way sexier than some dude in what looks like to be Victoria Secret thongs on fuckin the air. Lls! I don't get turned either by the females, but it's just more enjoyable and entertaining. Ijs. Plus I might even learn something ;-)

Good Nut, Bad Nut!

Hey luvs!!! I've been m.i.a from blogging, but I'm back AND have a good one.

Apparently theirs such a thing as a GOOD NUT and a BAD NUT. These are the type of things  I learn from having male friends that don't have a filter when they talk to me. I love it and it keeps me entertained. Plus,  this is how I learn about you MEN. Lol!! I had no idea that this was even a thing.

I had no idea that the amount of cum a man releases is measured by how attracted he is to a female. Well at least in some cases. In other cases he could just be BACKED UP. Lmao!! But anyway, I had no idea.

I guess it's different for a female, because we can always fake a GOOD NUT!!! Let's be honest ladies, WE'VE ALL DONE IT AT LEAST ONCE, or twice or ten times, whatever...you've done it. Lol!

Sex=Addiction

Now I don't know about you, but I think about sex ALL DAY LONG!!!!! I use to think I really had a problem, especially as a woman. I always thought is it healthy for me to be think about it so much, so often. Lol!! But the older I got the more I accepted that this is just how I am. THEIRS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH ME!

What I have realized though is that sex is an addition. It's literally a drug. Without it our bodies go through withdrawal. We get moody, you have frequent flashbacks and everything can turn into a sexual joke. I can admit to all of  those...I turn damn near EVERYTHING into a sexual pun. Lol!

Is it my fault that I get good dick. NOPE!!! Sure ain't. Lol! Is it my fault that he gives it so good it puts me to sleep and I wake up wanting more. HELL NO!!!! Lol!! I guess the only cure for sex addiction is bad dick or pussy. Lmao!! If that's the cure  you need, you can keep that shit.

Is Three Company?

I think a person has be mentally prepared to participate in a threesome, especially if their doing it while in a relationship. That's their first mistake right their already. WHY THE FUCK would you do that while in a relationship with someone. Is having a threesome with your significant other a smart move? I personally don't think so. MOST guys are all for bringing in another female in for sex, but what happens when your girl leaves you for chick cause she licked it right? Lol!! That's the shit nobody thinks about.

Now as far as me saying you have to be mentally prepared...that's for the females. Well...some of them. Regardless if your a secure woman, while ya'll are all getting it in, if you notice that your man is enjoying that shit just a little too much, your mind automatically will start to to the negative. Will he fuck her if I'm not around? Is she better in than me etc.

I just feel if your gonna partake in a threesome, do it when your just dating an having fun. Let's be real are you going to marry someone you had a threesome with. HONESTLY!!! If you do...that'll be a marriage lacking trust, because you'll always remember that time. Granted it may have been fun at the moment, but  you know when all is done you sit around I think...DAMN I SHOULDN'T HAVE THAT SHIT!! If I ever do it, best believe I'M GONNA BE SINGLE! I don't need that damn headache. Lol!

The Love Below

Now I know I talked about head before, but this is just different. SHOCKINGLY...some people hate oral sex. THE FUCK?!?!? I can't believe some women don't like to slob on the knob and some men don't like to eat the cake. Where they do that at? Lol!! Is it a deal breaker for you if someone your interested in doesn't like it?

Like I said before in "Lick It Before You Stick It"...how do you have sex without head? For me I get more turned on when I know that my significant other is enjoying it. It's a ego booster, let's me honest.  I wonder if some people don't like receiving it. If those people exist they need to shot and set on fire!!!! Lmao!! Ijs.

You Can Get It Anywhere

If you think sex is only meant to be had in a bed...YOU MY FRIEND HAVE BEEN MISSING OUT!!!!! Theirs nothing like having sex in a crowded movie theatre, on the balcony on a cruise ship in the middle of the ocean, in the driveway of a strangers house and so on and so forth. Lol!!! It just adds more excitement to the sex. The thrill of being caught or seen just gives you  rush like no other.

Next time you and your significant other are driving home from a movie, dinner, church, wherever your coming from...lol, either you pull over or tell them to pull over and just get it in. Sometimes you just can't wait, so...why not. Even in the house. R Kelly said it best "Sex in the kitchen, over by the stove..." I mean doesn't that sound inviting. Like I said, sometimes you just can't wait ;-)

Lick It Before You Stick Iit

Apparently this is a discussion among ALOT of friends. We all talk about it. HEAD WITHOUT SEX!!!!!!! Some people believe it or not don't like giving it. Smh. WEIRDOS!!!!!! Lol! How can you NOT give head before you have sex. Isn't it a requirement. It should actually be a law. Lol! Ijs.

Head and sex are like a package deal. You just can't have one without the other. Now their are sometimes you wanna just get it in and you just by pass it all together...that's perfectly fine. I mean do you!!! But if just something you feel you don't want to do,don't like doing or don't know how to do...you better read a book and take note. ESPECIALLY if your married or in a relationship...
that'll never work. Somebody is bound to get it from someone else.

Flashbacks & Aftershocks!!!!!!!!!

Your just sitting there watching tv then suddenly you get that sensation like your about to cum. All you do is grin, exhale and say WTF!?!? That's all symptoms of FLASHBACKS & AFTERSHOCK from getting some SEX!!!!!! The only cure is wack dick or pussy. That'll fuck up anything. Lmao! Now when that happens daaaaaayyyyyyysssssss later...you know that was some good shit. The only cure is wack dick or pussy. That'll fuck up anything. Lmao!

When it happens you just think to yourself "I wasn't even thinking about that shit". YOU weren't, but your body was. It has a mind of it's own. Lol!! I KNOW IT DOES!!! That's just indication that you need to get some more of that good shit ASAP!!! Would you agree? Lol!

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Can I Hit It In The Morning

Morning sex, mid-day sex, night time sex...who the hell can choose. But apparently some people have a preference. As for me...I'll take the morning sex to start my day off with a healthy breakfast of...SEX!!!! I just think sex in the morning can help those who aren't morning people. Lol! Midday sex, I don't know what that can really fix, but I wouldn't object to it. Of course sex at night is a stress reliever. You may have had a long day at work and the boss pissed you off so you go home and just let out your aggression on your significant other...in a good way of course.

I can remember when I was  younger and me and my boyfriend at the time would call out of work to just have sex...ALL DAY!!! That was thee shit!!! I don't even think we ate. Lol!  Note to self...but aside a day for some all day sex.

Face South, Ass North

69, Doggy(face down, ass up), Reverse cowgirl are a few we've all done. Their are thousands of positions we can all choose from. We all have that one position  that just gets us to where we need to be. For guys it's normally the last position you do cause you don't want to...well you know. Lol! From talking to my male friends the majority are a fan of doggy. They like when they see the females ass just bouncing back them. For females they like it because it all about positioning. A man can get in that position and make her see stars, fireworks, sparkles etc. ESPECIALLY if he knows what he's doing back there. Lmao!

We all have our preferences and dislikes. But just keep it interesting. Note to self  buy a Karma Sutra book. Lol!

I'm Bout To Bust

Sexual frustration just makes me always feel like I'M BOUT TO BUST!  Sex or maybe I should say cumming is definitely a drug. When I don't get it I go through withdrawal. I get cranky and become a major bitch, I get that uncomfortable feeling in my stomach a.k.a LADY WOOD and I just get flat out frustrated. I guess when your body is accustom to cumming however many times a day, week etc that's just what happens.

Is it just me or is it when you finally have sex you act like your about to murder whomever it is your getting it in with. God bless them. They just didn't know the torment you just went through. A.D.I.D.A.S!!!!!!!!

Dirty Mouth...Why Clean It Up

PUSSY, DICK, FUCK, BALLS are just a few words that I use on a daily basis. These are also words that make people uncomfortable. If that classifies me as having a DIRTY MOUTH, I'll just have to take that charge. That's kind of what makes me so inappropriate. But I love it..you do too whether you want to admit it or not. Lol! It's ok, I can keep a secret.

I use to think that I had a problem because all I think and talk about is sex. As a female I just didn't think that was normal. But the older I got the less I gave a fuck. I'm a proud card carrying member of the Not Many Fucks Coalition. Lol! This is just how I am. I love to make people step outside their little bubble and say the things they always think. It's ok to be inappropriately good. We all have it in us.

Women are taught to be very lady like and everything is rainbows and candy with us. LIES! Why can't a woman be considered a lady because she likes to verbally expressive. Yeah it maybe a little colorful, but hey...so what.  I'm 90% devil and 10% angel. I  think that's a great combo. What do you think. So ladies don't be afraid to add a little fire into you vocab. Believe it or not...some men love.

Take It Cause You Want It

Maybe I'm just different but I like taking charge in the bedroom. Not all the time of course I like a man to be a man. But sometimes I just want him to feel just as good as I do. So if I need to to take the reigns I will. NO PROBLEM. I don't  get those females that just lay there and let him do all the work or even those that ALWAYS wait for him to make the first move...KNOWING she's horny as shit.

Women can very much dominate  as well. Most woman aren't mentally prepared to do it though. Ladies theirs nothing wrong with pushing him down on the bed, unbuckling his pants, whipping his dick out and just going to work on it. Stop being such a prude and take care of your mans sexual needs, cause you know you want some dick...NOW!!!

Bang My Back Out

I love a man that can be romantic and make it all about me while were doing the do. The soft caresses, the kisses all over my body and all that lovey dovey shit. BUT...sometimes a woman just want you to pull her hair, wrap your and around her neck and BANG HER BACK OUT. Theirs just something about rough sex just tums me on. Sometimes you come out of it looking like you've been in battle. But sex bruises are good bruises. Try explaining those. Lol!

When a man can take control of a woan's body sexually with his aggression and strength is something that can make the pussy flow like Niagara Falls. It's a win-win situation for the both of you. The more a woman is turned on the more she'll be willing to be aggressive with a man and may try some new things. When it comes to sex I feel it's our job  to make each other feel comfortable. The moral of this story is keeping it interesting in the bedroom and don't be afraid to take out aggression sexually on each other ;-)

Lady Wood

Ok guys...women get wood too. Lol! Maybe not literally, but we get something. I refer to it as lady wood. What is is lady wood you ask...it's a little fluttering in the stomach, the pussy gets wet, we have to squeeze our legs together to suppress the feeling and we have to exhale because our entire body gets an out of this world sensation. It's the same when you get hard and your trying to hide it by pushing your dick down in your pants. Lol! You all may get it when you see a VERY sexy female walk pass and you immediately imagine bending her over and possibly banging her back out. Yeah...we know you think that shit. ;-)

We get it when you hug us and you scent is just so god damn alluring, when we see you looking sexy as hell in a suit and your on your grown man shit, when you touch out lower back and..ok, that's all I'm gonna give you. I can't give you all the secrets. Lol! But yeah...we get wood too. It's just internal.

Great Book

Make sure you check out "Diary of a 12inch Brotha" By: Dante Feenix on Kindle for Amazon.com. I couldn't put it down after the first few pages. It's an awesome read. Guys don't be scared to check it out too. You might learn a little something ;-)

But He Got A Baby Dick

Ladies...what would you do if you were dating a guy for months, you've never had sex with him and developed strong feelings, he treats you like a queen, you want for nothing, he has the best personality you can ask for in a man, your friends and family love him. But when that time comes and you guys have sex and you realize that...HE GOT A BABY DICK. Would you stay in the relationship and allow the feelings you develop to override the lack of sexual satisfaction? Would stay in the relationship, but cheat, or would you just have to end the relationship all together?

Honestly I would have to end the relationship. Is that shallow? Maybe, but sex is very important to me especially in a relationship. If I'm not satisfied sexually that leaves to much room for cheating, which is something I wouldn't want to do to someone. He wouldn't be satisfied in  the relationship either, because I wouldn't want to have sex with him. That's sounds harsh? Yes, but I know my truth and that's just what is.

Mind Sex

Have you ever been mind fucked?  You don't ever know you have til it's over. Now I'm not talking about someone talking dirty to you to turn you on. I'm talking about having a simple in depth conversation that just makes you take your mind to a place it's never been before. It's not the typical bullshit ass conversations you've had with someone. It's like a breath of fresh air. Your just simply sitting their across from the person and their just talking. But the more you listen to what their saying,  your body just relaxes, your mind doesn't wonder off, because their holding you verbally. You don't even realize that your getting turned on until the conversation is over, you exhale and you literally have to think about what the hell just happened. Then you realize...I'VE JUST BEEN MIND FUCKED!!!! #TrueStory

The Difference In A Touch

Do you ever wonder what is it about the difference in a particular persons touch? Theirs that one person that can whisper in you ear and your pussy just start dripping or your dick starts to jump. Yeah of course if your horny that can easily happen. But theirs that one person that just gives you that feeling in the pit of your stomach that you just can't quite put into words, whether you want to admit it or not. For a split second  when they touch you your body just shivers, you close your eyes and you squeeze your fist and exhale. The reaction happens so fast they don't even notice it. I think those are the feeling you feel when you discover intimacy. When you discover it...it's not even about the sex, it's about the connection. The mental connection. They have a control over your that you don't want to give up, but when you finally do...IT JUST FEELS SO GOD DAMN GOOD!!!!

Inappropriate Double Standards

I'm not a fan of  the double standard that society has in place for us. We all know that it leads us to believe that it's fine for a man to sleep with as many women as he wants and were all suppose to be ok with that, EVEN if he's in a relationship. But a SINGLE woman can DATE numerous men and she's automatically labeled a freak,whore, slut etc. Ii strongly believe that's all BULLSHIT!!!!! How is that even possible?!?! She's single though...he's not. It's ok for a man to sleep with a woman on the first date, but she can't!!!

Women are sexual beings just as much as a man is. Our sex drive is just as vibrant and eager, so why do we have to down play them because of what society says. SERIOUSLY!!! WHY?!?!